Disguised Coercion & Performativity IntroductionThe Mechanism of Disguised CoercionHow Performativity Delivers CoercionTracking Coercion via a Diagnostic LensWhy This Tracks Especially Well with Efficiency IdeologyA Midlife-Specific ObservationConclusion & Key TakeawaysAdditional Reading Introduction In the previous installment,[1] I discussed performativity and the ideology of efficiency. Specifically, I examined efficiency as getting the most done in the least…
IntroductionEfficiency vs. PerformativityThe Gen X ProblemWorking BetterโNeither Smarter nor HarderThe Perspectival ShiftConclusion Introduction In this writing, Iโll discuss performativity and the ideology of efficiency. The inference is straightforward: The point of efficiency is to get the most (maximum) done in the least (minimum) amount of time. But what if performativity isnโt about efficiency at all,…
A rejection of hustle culture. IntroductionVolume as a Proxy for SignalReframe the Physiology as DataDonโt Apologize for the Actual Age Advantage, Exploit ItTime Horizon As EditorRedefining Success from Accumulation to IntegrationIdentity Shift from โDisciplined Personโ to โPerson with a SystemโWhere a Bias for Action Survives the ShiftA Concrete Instrument You Could DeployConclusion & Key TakeawaysAdditional…
A profound and deeply human challenge. IntroductionVisualization as a Buttress Against Status AnxietyThe Strategy Against Disguised Coercion & DesperationA Decision Matrix to Aid AcceptanceThe Best Ability Is AvailabilityA Few Practical Next StepsConclusion & Key TakeawaysAdditional Reading Introduction This essay is a meditation on potential and the quiet dignity of acceptance and responding rationally to being…
Introduction Youโve Been Thrown Into the Worldโฆ Now What? Us vs. โTheyโ Befindlichkeit Discloses the World Demythologizing Success & the Other Demythologizing Material Possessions Conclusion & Key Takeaways Introduction For the 45+ adult, the drive to appear โsuccessfulโ becomes, a fortiori, more catalyzing than the underlying inner conflict of envying others. Why? The answer is…
IntroductionOn รlan Vital, Aporia, & Feeling StuckPsychological EntropyOn รlan VitalHave the Discipline for TransformationInterest as Purpose ReinventedAdvantage, CapacityReinvention: Itโs Not What You ThinkConclusion & Key Takeaways Introduction We hear it all the time: When we get to a certain age, the central insight is always the same: โstay active.โ That advice is like a cup…
IntroductionFear of Irrelevance as Status ThreatResponding Without PanicFrom Relevance to IntegrationSelf-Transcendence via IkigaiConclusion & Key Takeaways Introduction When the amygdala interprets a shift in social value as a threat to survival, panic often emerges. Many adultsโGen X and olderโhave experienced it at some point in their lives: They wake up one day only to find…