Tag: status anxiety


  • Demythologizing Success

    Introduction Youโ€™ve Been Thrown Into the Worldโ€ฆ Now What? Us vs. โ€œTheyโ€ Befindlichkeit Discloses the World Demythologizing Success & the Other Demythologizing Material Possessions Conclusion & Key Takeaways Introduction For the 45+ adult, the drive to appear โ€œsuccessfulโ€ becomes, a fortiori, more catalyzing than the underlying inner conflict of envying others. Why? The answer is…

  • Confronting Status Anxiety at Midlife

    Introduction Status anxiety is that quiet, persistent hum in the background of our lives. Itโ€™s the fear that we arenโ€™t measuring up, that weโ€™re falling behind, or that others see us as failures because we donโ€™t have the right job, car, house, or lifestyle. Itโ€™s disguised coercion because the drawing of invidious comparisons doesnโ€™t feel…