Tag: purpose


  • Purpose as a Rejection of Disguised Coercion

    IntroductionThe Core Point Worth Making ExplicitParental CoercionCultural CoercionWhat Purpose Looks Like HereWhat Meaning Looks Like HereWhere the Distinction Earns Its KeepConclusion Introduction Many adults, including Gen Xers, are currently living a life dictated by someone else. Itโ€™s a life with a predefined, predetermined purpose. Thatโ€™s bad enough. What if instead, purpose is viewed as a…

  • Gen X Legacy-Building? Stay Engaged with the Possibility

    IntroductionSteadfastness In Legacy-Building for a Gen Xer Intent On Value-MakingGo Beyond Outputs: Create SystemsEmbracing the โ€œUnfinishedโ€ WorkPitfalls to AvoidConclusion & Key Takeaways Introduction Time is a predator that stalks us all our lives. What have I learned? This: Stay engaged with the possibility. Letโ€™s face this fact: Sooner or later, we all begin to feel…

  • The ‘Vette Won’t Stop the Fret

    IntroductionPerspective: Confronting the InevitableMaking Contact with RealityGrieving Past IdentitiesAging Is AsymmetricalEmpirical Evidence: What the Research ShowsThe Practical AdvantageConclusion & Key Takeaways Introduction We should approach this subject by distinguishing between the fear of aging and the fear of irreversibility. Aging is a visible phenomenon, but for many older adults, a deeper, underlying anxiety exists: The…