Category: Relationships


  • Examine the Season of Your Life

    Introduction Examine the seasons of your life. Start with the one youโ€™re in, and stop farming against the weather. The inference is this: Find a posteriori justifications for living authentically, in accordance with your true nature, as a rejection of hypothetical potential. The constant tension catalyzed by status anxiety in the drive for โ€œsuccessโ€ and…

  • Reconciling With a Relationship That Has Expired

    A profound exploration of the intersection between Sartrean Existentialism, the psychology of aging, and the specific phenomenon of status anxiety. Introduction In terms of hodological space, viewed from a Sartrean perspective, some older adults, wrapped in the warmth of counterfeit emotions, fear being authentic. Why? Because something inside them says, โ€œIf Iโ€™m authentic, then I…

  • The Mentorship Manifesto

    This Mentorship Manifesto is a powerful instrument for securing your new legacy- and relationship-building identity. Putting it in writing externalizes the shift from having to โ€œproveโ€ to the freedom and willingness to โ€œshareโ€; from ego to legacy. Essentially, the Mentorship Manifesto turns your โ€œseismographโ€ into a compass: reading the tectonic shifts in your own identity…

  • The Slippery Slope of Generosity

    IntroductionEmotional ParentificationThe Path to RuinDonโ€™t Call Me Unlessโ€ฆRide or Flight?Generosity & RuinThe Slippery Slope RealizedThe Discipline to ClimbConclusion & Lessons LearnedAdditional Reading Introduction Is my life a cliff or a plain? Currently, I am not sure. I am certain it was once a cliff. I climbed intrepidly, relentlessly, until I finally reached the topโ€”my destination.…

  • The Cruel Diary of Truth: What Have I Learned?

    IntroductionThe Incarcerated SlaveOf Course, Childhood TraumaManifest Parentification as an AdultThe Incarcerated Slave RevisitedEmpathic Depletion & Compassion FatigueConclusion & Lessons Learned Introduction I was in, no. I stayed in a fifteen-year โ€œrelationshipโ€; one that should have ended within months. But what can I say, die Eule der Minerva fliegt. The relationship officially came to an end…